More on the Male G-spot-or-P-spot

Men do have a G-spot like women…it’s called the P-spot!

So how do you translate this information into a mind blowing orgasms for your sweetie?  First you’ve got to develop an understanding of the anatomy.  The prostate lies directly over the perineum, the space between the anus and the back of the testicles.  If you or your partner are at all squeamish about your playing proctologist and exploring the neither regions of his lower rectum, then the good news is that you can stimulate this spot by applying pressure to this area outside the body.  Just find that middle point and along that inch and a half space behind his testicles and press firmly with your thumb.

It would help the process considerably, if you happen to stimulate his penis before, during and after you go for the serious acupressure on his perineum.  It just makes things go much smoother, and the resulting lubrication and increased blood flow tend to increase the swelling of the prostate, and let you reach the P-spot from behind his testicles.  Besides, even the most novice of sexual animals will realize that most men will sit still through your geographical navigation’s if their penis is getting even some attention.

Once you’ve mastered the external pressure, and you’ve got short, clean
fingernails, you can gear up to some gentle, internal massaging.  The anus is full of nerve endings, and provided you are sensitive to the delicate nature of rectal tissue, most men find that this kind of anal play can take love making into the WOW zone. 

From here finding the P-spot is pretty straight forward.  After a short exploration, the walnut-like structure of the prostate will be apparent.  Move it gently back and forth and bingo, the sensations he’s been experiencing from your ongoing penis manipulations should be very much enhanced.  One final suggestion, for the try-this-at-home instruction manual, is to consider using a slender vibrator to do your work for you.  The sphincter muscle at the opening of the anus is strong, and the resulting pressure on your finger can be significant after awhile.  Using vibrators, that are small, narrow and powerful, and can really enhance his orgasm.

The experience of P-spot stimulation feels “different” as I’ve heard it described by the men I’ve interviewed.  It feels great, it feels sexual, but it doesn’t feel like a run-of-the-mill penis orgasm.  The same description is often heard by women describing the difference between clitoral and G-spot orgasms.  It’s fun, and if your partner can relax and trust your inquisitive nature to figure out to how to have him singing a chorus of Hallelujah’s with a little P-spot play, then your reputation as a great lover is well on it’s way to being cemented.

The variety in experiences with the P-spot arises because we are talking about men and not toaster ovens.  This description should be a close but not a perfect fit for most men.  It’s a given that there is some variation for each individual partner you may try this out on.  As well, don’t be disappointed that the earth doesn’t move for your lover the first time you engage the P-spot.  It takes practice, communication, and loads of foreplay to hit all the right buttons. 

 So, unfortunately (or rather fortunately), being known as a Sex God takes “hands on training” rather than clicking your heels together, befriending a genie, or wishing on a star.  That being said however, a little elbow grease (or at least lube), and map of the P-spot, may be all the magic you really need.

 author my friend Ernie Garcia  at  erniespleasurechest